13 THINGS WOMEN HATE IN A RELATIONSHIP


Hi guys, based on request to write on this after I wrote the 17 THINGS MEN HATE IN A RELATIONSHIP(You can find this in my former blog moxiesdiary.co or just check my next post for it), I have put these up for the men; I hope you guys get to read and treat us better.





1. WHEN YOU JUST LISTEN BUT DON’T HEAR

Woes befall you if you let your mind wander away during a conversation, thereby missing out on what she’s saying, haha. Honestly, my man can be guilty of this especially when he’s working or playing game. He’s listening but he’s definitely not hearing a damn thing I say.




Try to hear what she says; we can be impatient sometimes trying to talk about something. It’s only fair you politely tell us to talk about it later if you can’t pause what you’re doing to give us the attention.




2. WEIGHT-MONITORING

Trust me, it’s annoying when you tell her she’s getting fat, or that she’s fat, and it depends on how you say it. I don’t take offence because I’m always conscious of my body. But it’s sure annoying when you gotta always remind her that she’s putting on weight. Why complain if you can’t help her find a solution?




3. STARING AT OTHER WOMEN

Ha! Why you gotta do that, bro? I ain’t good enough for ya, or? You might as well go have that girl you checking out, when you with me. It’s total disrespect, bro. It’s normal to notice a pretty being; we all do, but staring without control?, ah! To make it worse, you go ahead to tell her she’s jealous because she reacted. Guess what? she’s not! She’s mad you’re disrespecting her.




4. FORCING INTIMACY

I know sometimes guys think it’s normal and playful to grab their women’s b*obs or touch her intimately, but when she’s not in the mood it can really be annoying. I know some men have the mindset of going to get it from another woman just because their woman ain’t in the mood; well I hope you feel good when she needs money but you don’t have, and she opts to get it from another man? Also let me quickly say that it’s not only women that can be cheap, a man can be cheap too. If every girl has access to you, then you’re cheap and have no respect for your body.

Men and women experience intimacy in different ways. Men need to be touched from the outside in, while women need to be touched from the inside out. Men enjoy physical contact, and being touched intimately, while women need to be in the right mental and emotional space to react positively to intimate touch.




So instead of coming home and grabbing her, why don’t you ask her how her day was? Let’s start from there.




5. ASSUMPTION

Don’t assume you know what she wants. Men and women communicate differently. Sometimes a woman will just want to vent about a certain issue, and all she may need from you is just to listen, but when you judge her and tell her she should have done this or that, it could be annoying. It’s much better when you ask her what she wants before you take action.




I know now you thinking how hard these things are, and how you’re being given conditions. Well, these are the simple things you can do to maintain a happy relationship.




6. YOU COMPLAIN SHE’S NAGGING

Arrrgh, don’t I just hate this? Dear men, if your partner asked you to do something three weeks ago, and you didn’t do it, she’s gonna keep reminding you, and it doesn’t mean she’s nagging. She may even be frustrated with your procrastination that she’ll end up doing it herself or calling someone to do it.




7. YOU DON’T COMPLIMENT HER

Sometimes that’s all she just needs to get through the day. It’s okay to let your woman know she’s loved, or that you appreciate her body. She may not be s*xy after childbirth but that’s because she has carried a whole human in her tummy, and your encouragement may just be all she needs to get back in shape.




8. YOU CAN’T EXPRESS YOURSELF

I mean I don’t know if it’s ego or something else, but why can’t you tell your woman how you feel about her? If she’s wrong, go ahead and tell her. If she does right, go ahead and praise her. If you love her so much, show her, tell her; just express it. You’ll feel happier you did.




9. OVER-DOMINANCE

You guys remember my ex I told you about in “Why your last love is more important than your first love?” He was this way, and that made me feel so unsafe! It’s okay to be protective but being over-dominant? Ah. He always had reasons why I shouldn’t be friends with someone, where I should go and shouldn’t go, etc.




When you do this to your woman, she won’t feel safe with you; trust me, and that is how domestic violence starts because you may be infuriated if she goes against what you say. Don’t turn from protector to dictator for her. Allow her do her own things so you don’t end up suffocating her which leads to her being tired of you, and you know what that means.




10. NOT TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF

Honestly, every woman wants her man to look good, be well mannered, and presentable.




11. ARGUMENTS

Someone please get my man to read this. He argues a lot, lol. Dear men, please don’t turn every conversation or discussion into an argument; be patient and understanding. You know who wins after all.




12. BEING TOO COZY WITH HER FRIENDS


This is a warning! I repeat, this is a warning - don’t get too comfortable with her friends; she’s observing how you socialise with them. Ps, I’m talking about her female friends here. Pay attention only when needed, otherwise you’ll be accused of being a flirt. Tread carefully, bro.




13. YOU DON’T FOCUS

While every woman loves the fact that her man appreciates her body, you’re going to have to look into her eyes when you talk. You don’t wanna create the impression that you’re a creep.




So here are the 13 Things Women Hate In A Relationship. I hope you find this helpful for your relationships.




Don’t forget to keep your eyes off other women and you’ll enjoy a happy relationship/marriage forever.




NB: If you don’t believe in love, you may not like this article, so just ignore.




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