17 THINGS MEN HATE IN A RELATIONSHIP


So yeah, before you ask if I'm gonna write 'What women hate in a relationship', yes I have(check the post before this one). Ladies, let's talk about these stuff we do without knowing that men hate them.

Ask any man and he'll be sure to tell you that they hate these stuff about women. So knowing this, you can be a different kind of girl, and most importantly be a matured one.

Let's get started:

1. SPYING.


Oh yes! I bet you didn't know. It's okay to protect your man but don't go spying on him, looking for who's texting him and who he's texting. I used to do this until I realized one fact: he chose you, not them. If he wanted to be with other girls, he would, and not you. Spying gives you off as an insecure woman and that even drives him faster into the arms of another woman.. No man wants to feel caged. If you suspect he's cheating, best you can do is talk with him, or ask him questions. If you can't deal with it, then peacefully end the relationship. You need to believe that no girl is better than you are so if he messes up, it's his loss not yours. Don't spy; those girls you suspect he's texting don't have two heads, and they ain't better than you are.


2. JEALOUSY


Yes boo! It's okay to be territorial you know, protecting what's yours, and protecting your space, but jealousy is a NO! Being jealous would be hurting yourself all the time because you'll always feel uneasy when you see him talking to a girl.
Even when there's nothing going on, you'll think something is. Jealousy is dangerous because you'll see yourself having irrational thoughts and even acting on them. Men avoid jealous women but once you show you ain't jealous, it sends the message that you are super-confident.

3. NAGGING


Me, as a woman hate nagging, for real. Just imagine when someone is constantly talking about something, it's annoying. I remember how my man always ignore me when I get into my nagging mood. I just go on and on till he says "it's okay now", or starts playing music so he wouldn't hear me again, lol.
Yes, men hate nagging.

4. PRETENCE

Just be yourself. Speak up if you don't like something. Truth is, guys know when a woman is pretending; maybe not all of them but 90% of them are smart enough to know when you're faking it. You don't have to like everything he likes, and you don't have to pretend to be happy all the time just so you can be perceived as a happy person. You're human and you weren't made to be perfect.

5. JUMPING TO CONCLUSION

I don't like this either. What does it take you to ask questions, sister? Do you know that half the time you make assumptions, chances are you're wrong! Guys hate when you come out pointing fingers without facts. Always ask questions, honey; it saves embarrassment.

6. LACK OF CONFIDENCE


Need I explain this? Even us as humans are naturally drawn to confident and charismatic people. Men hate when their women lack confidence. They do love when you ask them to a make a choice for you but when you do it all the time, it's like you can't even do anything without their help. There have to be times you go out and do what you gotta do: meet your friends, have fun and not complain about the woman that's hovering all over him.

7. EXCESS WEIGHT

I am telling you the truth. You may be thinking having a lot of b**bs and as* is something to brag about. Oh well, they may love to show you off 'cause you got those or they may love them when it comes to s**, but how come they're not being committed? Honestly, if you place a slim girl and fat girl together, a guy with good intentions will pick a slim girl. Please note that this article in no way aims at fat-shaming anyone, but telling you the truth. If you being a plus size is not a health-related issue, then you can lose a little weight. Do it for you not just for a man because trust me, you'll feel better and more proud of yourself after some trimming, plus you feel more confident.

8. TALKING TOO MUCH


Don't we all hate a talkative? There are sometimes you just need to keep quiet. It's not everything you talk about; a wise woman doesn't say everything she sees. Guys hate when you talk bad about your friends or other women so you can appear better. They may not tell you they hate it, but they do. They'll definitely end up building resentment towards you.

9. BEING GLUED TO YOUR PHONE

Imagine someone visits you and they're always on their phone snapchatting or making long calls. How do you see such a person? Of course, that attitude puts someone off. You prolly think you're trying to show that you're hot, or that a lot of people call you. Honey, that's simply showing how uncivilized you are.

10. ANSWERING HIS CALLS

Unless he asked you to, please don't. Thank you

11. SPENDING TOO MUCH TIME ON EVERYTHING

{laughs}.. Please don't ever let it get to that point where he asks you to start preparing 3 hours before an event, just because you waste so much time on getting ready. I used to be like this until I learnt what's important and what isn't. Wasting time doesn't mean they gonna leave you. No; they just hate it. So if you want a happy man, you gotta stay organized and keep everything brief including your shopping.

12. EXPLOITATION

He doesn't have to pay for all your stuff, whether he's a billionaire or not. Sometimes, offer to pay for some when you guys shop together. You don't have to do it all the time. Once in a while is okay; just pay for what you can or buy what you can for the house. These are the little things that keep relationships healthy, and going.

13. TALKING ABOUT EXES

What exactly are you talking about them for? If you care so much about them, then you should be with them. Men hate past lovers discussions same way we women hate them.
Also, stop inviting them to meet your man if you do; it's awkward.


14. WEARING TOO MUCH MAKEUP

Don't worry about the lady with too much makeup that you think he's admiring. Men love to know their women are natural beauties. Remember we are talking about relationships. Men hate loud makeup even if they don't tell you. Do your makeup in a way that shows you're still pretty even without that makeup.

15. AGGRESSIVENESS

You don't have to pick a fight with every little thing. I guess everyone hates this.

16. BEING AN OVER-PLEASER

Guess I already explained this in no.4. Being an over-pleaser is a turn-off. You don't have to devote your life to pleasing him. He'll definitely get bored. It is okay to say your mind and how you feel, but politely.

17. GETTING DRUNK IN PUBLIC

You are his girl, not just a random girl, so do you think he'll appreciate his woman being embarrassed publicly?


So now you know the 17 things guys hate in a relationship. Do you think I forgot anyone or think I'm wrong with any?Please tell me in the comment box.
I hope these tips were helpful? You don't need a manual to keep a man. Just work on yourself to be a better you, and the right man will come at the right time.

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  1. Now you're talking Moxie. Where's my gf. She needs to read this

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  2. No.14 my bf hates me putting on excess makeup so I agree with you

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  3. Hahaha all are true

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