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MISGUIDED.. Final Episode

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Cindie's wedding was breathtaking! After spending 10k on Asoebi, the wedding was worth it. I didn't really attend the wedding though because I wanted to, but because I wanted to see if I could meet any rich guy. That was my major reason for always going to weddings and joining asoebi. It was just me sampling my beautiful self. I think I have done about 20 asoebis, and been in 10-15 bridal train. 

WHY YOUR LAST LOVE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR FIRST LOVE

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Hello guys, we can all agree that it's not everyone that ends up with their first love. In fact, 95% of humans don't. Growing up, our parents fantasized so much about our first times: the first time we talked, walked, grew a tooth, sat down, etc. Image credit: yourtango We get to a certain age where we know about the opposite sex, and then we start looking forward to our first date, first kiss, and the rest of them. Then finally, someone comes and sweeps us off our feet, and we start thinking we'll end up with them, then we start matching our names/surnames. I remember how much I love western life(blame my mum), that I actually wanted to marry a guy that his last name is English, and well, the universe has its own way of granting me my wants, so, whoops he came! He was everything I said my husband will be(I wrote them all down in a book in high school), and I've never wanted to date anyone just for the fun of it; I usually ask myself if I can marry them, and if

50 DEEP QUESTIONS THAT WILL MAKE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER CLOSER

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Hi guys, so I’ve always been a fan of communication—I mean it’s the key to a healthy relationship. Sometimes it’s good to spice things up by playing games, or engaging in healthy conversations. Oh how much I love games,specially when I play with my man, or friends I’m comfortable around.

9 WAYS TO KNOW IF A GUY IS SERIOUS WITH YOU OR HE ONLY WANTS S*X

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Hello guys, so I've seen girls get betrayed or fooled by guys they thought they had something serious with. I put this together to help or guide everyone who's confused about their stance in a relationship, or ladies who are trying to know if their man is serious about them. I hope you find them helpful..xx 1. He only texts or mails you We all know that guys hate talking on the phone, but if you’re never hearing the sound of his voice, that could spell trouble. “If I have hung out with a girl a few times and I’m still texting or emailing her, it’s just about s*x for me,” says Dan, 28. Chalk it up to his lack of interest in talking with you—and the ease of technology, a boon for lazy would-be players. If he isn't making efforts to call you every now, and then, then he isn't looking forward to anything serious with you.

10 WAYS TO BE DEBT-FREE

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Photo credit: Affirmation Hi guys, thank you for some of your feedback on my posts, and also for sharing them. I love and appreciate you. Today I’ll be sharing something important which will prolly benefit the yet-to-be married ones, but even if you already married, it could still help you to be debt free. Well by now you already know that I share anything thoughtful I read or know. I understand life isn’t very easy, so sometimes we see ourselves having many responsibilities with little to no money, hence we run into debt. Below are few ways you can make sure this doesn’t happen to you, because he that goes a borrowing goes a sorrowing. 1. CHOOSE QUALITY OVER QUANTITY WHEN MAKING A PURCHASE  You know how you go to the market, and you see cheaper products and want to buy a lot? Well you gotta be sure it’s quality before purchasing because if it’s not, then you wasting your money. It’s either it doesn’t serve you well or it keeps getting spoilt, and you spend tons of money fi

8 THINGS YOU DO THAT ARE KILLING YOUR KIDNEY

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So guys, I went through this and I realized we may all be guilty of one or two so I decided to share since kidney failure is one of the popular health problems we face as humans. I hope you find them helpful: 1. YOU DON'T EMPTY YOUR BLADDER WHEN YOU'RE PRESSED Yes, I do this especially when I'm traveling. My mum actually taught me how to control myself when I'm pressed if I'm in a public place; instead of using a public toilet, so I grew up being used to it. I can go 8-12 hours without easing myself. Unbelievable? Well, it's true. Holding your pee is not harmful to your health but when you make it a habit, that's when it becomes a problem.

THE OBSESSION... Episode Finale

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The cops ended up not finding a lead to a suspect. They left and told me to call as soon I start receiving the messages again. Life was starting to be normal again, but I didn’t want to get comfortable, and have this psycho resurface again. It's been almost twelve months since I lost Josh. The cops didn't find his burnt body. Obviously the psycho must have disposed it in a river. I made new friends who cheered me up, but no one could fill the void of loneliness—one special thing I shared with Josh. Slowly I was beginning to get back to my usual self. I'd be 27 in four months, and it was time to work harder, and spend more time with my new friends.

8 THINGS YOU PROBABLY SHARE WITH OTHERS THAT YOU SHOULDN'T

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So guys, you may or may not know these personal stuff you shouldn't share with anyone. My close friends know that I get irritated easily when some of my personal stuff are manhandled. When it comes to my toiletries, I hardly share too(like my soap, and bathing sponge). Sometimes when I visit my friends, and I prolly forgot my sponge, they'll just be like 'let's share mine', and I'll be like Ewww, I'll rather shower without sponge. Well, I wasn't wrong after all 'cause I just learned some personal stuff you shouldn't share with anyone. Wanna learn too? Let's get started. 1. SOAP BARS  Arrgghh, I just hate when soap bars are messy. Well, do you know that after each bath, the bar is covered with various organisms from your body, ranging from the harmless ones to serious ones called pathogens. It's even worse when the soap is in a wet dish because moisture makes it easier for bacteria, fungi,and viruses to grow. As a result,

THE OBSESSION.. Ep4

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I woke up in the hospital with Sammie by my side holding my hand. I was tad bit surprised to see him. He smiled at me on opening my eyes but I was too weak to smile back, and too weak to say a word. “Bree told me they saw you lying lifeless in your office. They thought you were dead", he said. "How long have I been here?", I managed to ask. 

WHAT TO AVOID DURING MENSTRUATION

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Photo credit: New York Times Hi guys so I read this and I thought I should share with y'all because it is very important for us women. I think by now, you should already know I share so many amazing and helpful stuff, so don't forget to visit my blog every day to learn, and also have fun with my stories. Here are seven things you need to avoid when you're on your period, and the reasons why.

4 EFFECTIVE WEIGHT LOSS DRINKS YOU CAN MAKE AT HOME

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Yeah yeah we all want that perfect toned body right? I know people tell you all the time to love your body the way it is but the truth is that you made yourself fat or you let yourself get out of shape. So if it was your fault that you got big then you can love yourself enough to get back in shape.

HOW I LOST 5KG IN LESS THAN TWO WEEKS

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Photo credit: Pinterest  Question: is it possible to lose weight without going on a diet? Yes, it is! But the thing is that you have to pick a struggle if you really want to lose weight the safest way without depending on pills and tea.

HOW TO GET RID OF PIMPLES FAST AT HOME

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Pimples are a normal skin condition that affect many people. Pimples are an inflammation of the skin in which the sebaceous glands (oil glands) become infected with bacteria, swell up, and fill with pus. I know how annoying pimples can be and how they often kill confidence/Make one miserable.. You may have tried lotions and medicine which were not effective so it's time to go natural!!.. Here are ways to get rid of pimples fast.. 1. ICE  Ice can be used to quickly reduce the redness, swelling and inflammation of pimples. It helps in improving blood circulation to the affected area, and in tightening the skin pores and removing dirt and oil accumulated on the skin. You can use ice cubes or crushed ice, whichever is convenient... *Wrap the ice in a piece of cloth and hold it on the affected skin area for a few seconds. *Wait a few minutes and repeat the process.

THE OBSESSION... Ep3

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After two weeks of not receiving texts nor calls from this psychopath, I and Josh thought he had finally walked away or better still, dead. I couldn't imagine how someone is hell-bent on making my life miserable.

17 THINGS MEN HATE IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Image credit: The sun So yeah, before you ask if I'm gonna write 'What women hate in a relationship', yes I will, but for now let's talk about these stuff we women do without knowing that men hate them. Ask any man and he'll be sure to tell you that they hate these stuff about women. So knowing this, you can be a different kind of girl, and most importantly be a matured one. Let's get started: 1. SPYING. Oh yes! I bet you didn't know. It's okay to protect your man but don't go spying on him, looking for who's texting him and who he's texting. I used to do this until I realized one fact: he chose you, not them. If he wanted to be with other girls, he would, and not you. Spying gives you off as an insecure woman and that even drives him faster into the arms of another woman.. No man wants to feel caged. If you suspect he's cheating, best you can do is talk with him, or ask him questions. If you can't deal with it, then peacef

THE OBSESSION.. Ep2

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I was scared and I am still scared. This person was beginning to make life miserable for me. I can't have a relationship with anyone because he threatens to kill any man that comes close to me. Josh had even told me that an unknown caller had called him on Wednesday night; last week, and warned him to stay away from me. To ensure his safety, I said a painful goodbye. Now I spend my work days acting like he doesn’t exist. It's been a week since I stopped talking to him, and I haven’t received any threat messages, but I still stumble across love notes in my garage—neatly placed on the windscreen of my car. ******************************************************************** I had a lot of work to do on Friday at the office, and they were mostly stuff from days I wasn't psychologically okay to work. My boss stormed into my office on Thursday afternoon, demanding a copy of the write up she had given me to work on—which I hadn’t even looked at. I apologized—wit