15 THINGS WOMEN HATE IN A RELATIONSHIP
Dear men, it is important to note that just as you hate so many things in a relationship, women also do, and one of them is definitely not thinking that her feelings are important. So many men are led to believe that all a woman wants is money and gifts. To be honest, we love, and want these things, we do! But they’re never going to make up for things you’re not getting right. I hope you find this article helpful, and make necessary adjustments where you’re at fault so you can enjoy a real and meaningful relationship.
1. BODY PRESENT, MIND ABSENT
I totally understand how you need to handle things as a man, but nothing puts your woman off like when she’s talking to you, and your mind isn’t there, or she always sees you worried, but you can’t tell her what’s wrong. I think part of the reasons people say marry your best friend is because a best friend is someone you can share everything with. It hurts your woman to know you can’t talk to her about your issues.
2. NEVER BEING CONSISTENT
Babe, remember how much I hated your inconsistency? Lol..
Unfortunately a lot of men have this trait. They never seem to make up their mind about what they want. Being inconsistent about plans, is also a huge turn-off.
3. ALWAYS WANTING TO BE BABYSAT
My goodness! What is this? You know one thing that makes me stay away from a friend? If they have a man who acts like a toddler that can’t take care of himself! It is straight up manipulation to me because I don’t understand how your woman’s life has to totally revolve around you. She can’t see her friends when she’s with you, but you have friends you go to see. She has to always do everything for you when she’s with you. Oooo! I know some girls actually love this, and claim it’s love—maybe because they’ve been brainwashed into believing so, but dear men, independent women love a man who can still do things even if she’s not there because it helps us know that you won’t go looking for another woman to help you out when we ain’t there.
I know I used to like some guy, but his insecurity put me off! Like if he calls me, and I don’t pick, he just assumes it’s because I’m with a man, so he starts acting up. We think it’s only women that are dramatic, but have you seen dramatic men? Omg.. I think an insecure man will manipulate his woman into thinking it’s because he loves her he’s checking her phone, being worried when she’s out, etc A man that trusts his woman wouldn’t be worried about any of these stuff, especially because she’s going to be open to you on her own—about things she does, and even seek for your advice and opinion. Dear men, confident women do not like insecure men.
5. BEING INSENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS
You don’t have to read her mind, but if you want an amazing relationship, then you need to understand her needs, and that comes with being patient and studying your woman. I remember one time I had a misunderstanding with my man, and he was so furious. He took a few minutes to calm down, and came back with my favorite ice cream! Omg that solved everything because the reason I was acting up was because I wanted attention, and he wasn’t giving it to me, lol. If a woman always spells out what she needs or wants, then it’s going to be tiring, and it will start looking like she’s nagging. Most women like me, don’t. It’s really not hard to understand a woman, trust me. If you love her, and you patient enough, you will, and that comes with calmly asking her questions.
6. LOOKING AT OTHER WOMEN/TALKING ABOUT OTHER WOMEN
I understand that when the eyes sees something good, it’s kinda hard to not appreciate it, but come on, do you have to look at every woman when you’re out? That means you’ll never stop looking because there are so many beautiful women in the world, and guess what? Your girl is one of them! Love her right, appreciate her, and watch her glow differently. I always tell people that how a woman looks tells a lot about the man she’s with. Please also cut down on women’s stories. She understands there are certain women you may have found attractive, but why always bring them up? I think it’s distasteful.. Your woman also have men she admires, trust me, but you may never hear her talk about it; because of what? Because they don’t matter! You do. Why not keep the same energy?(By the way that’s my man’s line, lol).
7. ZERO IDEA ON HOW TO TREAT WOMEN
This is exactly what I was trying to say at the beginning of this article. It doesn’t matter how many relationships you’ve been in, if you still don’t learn nor know how to treat a woman, it’s gonn’ cause some resentment from her. You just need to know and understand what her love languages are.
8. POOR COMMUNICATION
Speaking of love language, my love language is communication! I think that’s even one way to keep me interested because my brain simply remembers people and things I’m in constant touch with, and my man not being one of them? Nah. Communication also isn’t just about talking everyday, but it’s also about understanding, sharing your thoughts instead of keeping them in mind when your partner is not a mind reader. Women love men who communicate instead of being quiet and keeping them in the dark.
9. DIRT AND POOR HYGIENE
There’s absolutely no reason to spray heavy perfumes to mask body odor or unpleasant smell, when you can easily take a shower. Guys you know why I added this? Because I realized most men don’t like to take a shower, and even when they do, they don’t use a sponge. So how do you scrub off that armpit smell, and also the one down there? I mean it’s normal to sweat in these places; mostly because they’re covered. That’s why it’s important to have a good hygiene so they don’t turn to body odor. Another tip is that women love men who don’t litter around, and mess everywhere up. Also keep your nails neat.
10. INTENTIONALLY MAKING HER JEALOUS
You may think this helps build your bond, but it actually destroys it, because if she starts to make it obvious to you that she admires other guys, which is quite unhealthy, you may not be able to handle it. I know most guys can’t handle jealousy. So sending her some random raunchy pics and videos of women on social media, and being thirsty about them, is simply gonn’ make her harbor resentment for those women just because she thinks you find them attractive. No she’s not being insecure, you’re being immature.
11. BEING TOO SERIOUS
There’s nothing s*xy about being uptight all the time. Sometimes loosen up, crack some jokes, and also laugh at her own jokes. It’s just so boring when a man never creates a Funtime with his woman.
12. NOT CARING ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK
Yes we love our men looking good; me especially. Same way you’re proud when your woman is in shape and wears some nice outfit for you, is same way we’re proud when you do too. So it’s time to start looking great just for her! It’ll also boost your confidence. You don’t necessarily have to splash money on outfits, you can put the few you have together, play around colors, and look awesome!
13. ACTING SWEET TO GET HER, THEN CHANGING WHEN YOU’VE GOTTEN HER
Sincerely if you wann’ keep your woman, you have to keep doing those things you did that made her fall for you; otherwise it means you tricked her into being with you, and she’ll definitely find out. Some men do everything to get a woman, then change when they’ve gotten her. I mean if she’s someone you want a future with, then you always have to be sure to keep her interested; especially when she’s beautiful.. winks. By the way, it keeps things spicy.
I think this comes with arrogance and pride. She understands there are so many things you’re good at, and that so many girls want you too but rubbing it in her face will simply put her off. There’s nothing gentlemanly about bragging.
15. BEING A PUSHOVER
Yes! I personally detest a man I can control, or a man other people can control. That’s not an attractive trait. If you don’t have words of your own, and neither can you make a decision, but you’re easily influenced by most people around you, then it’s time to start growing some confidence. Caring so much about what others think or will say, and basing your decisions on them is nothing but a total turn-off to a woman! Women love men they know can protect them, and even tell them when they’re wrong... if she wants to date another female, then she will be with a girl, not a man. You get what I mean?
So guys, here are 15 things women hate in a relationship. I hope it helps keep your relationship new! xx
Ladies, do we all agree? Share your thoughts with me
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